Join over 400,000 parents in building a healthy co-parenting relationship.
In Oklahoma, 43 O.S. 2011, Section 107.2, it states that all actions for divorce, separation, custody or visitation, or modifications of such, with children under 18 years of age involved, the court requires the parents to complete an educational parenting program. Children in Between Online has been accepted throughout the state as an online parenting class option. Our class is nationally recognized by some of the top experts in the field and has documented studies showing the positive effect taking the class has on parents and children.
*To check if the course is accepted in your county, please see the list at the bottom of this page
Take the class completely online (not a zoom course) wherever you feel comfortable.
Log In and Out
Log in and out as needed over 30 days to complete the course. Class is about 4 hours.
Once completed, you can download, print, or email your certificate for court.
More Convenient than an In-Person or Zoom Class.
Log in and out as needed 24/7 with 30 days access.
Take it any time on any device!
Take on Any Device
Our class is optimized to fit all screen sizes. Take on your computer, laptop, tablet, or smartphone.
Watch videos with common co-parenting problems and then see different responses that produce positive and negative results.
After each video scenario, CIBO presents the user with guided questions to explore how each problem can be addressed, and to increase your understanding of the situation.
CIBO has been approved as the only accepted provider in some of the largest court systems in the country including Cook County (Chicago) and Clark County (Las Vegas). We are an approved provider in Maricopa County (Phoenix, AZ) as well. Today, the course has been accepted in more than two hundred and fifty judicial districts and is approved statewide in Florida, New York, Minnesota, and Nebraska.
Discover Healthy Co-Parenting
Co-parenting can be difficult. It is a team effort that takes practice and continued learning.
With Children in Between Online, parents learn the most common pitfalls parents make and how to overcome obstacles and lessen stress.
Who is taking Children in Between Online?
Parents per month
Over five thousand parents each month are
taking the class on their computers and smart phones in 45 states.
"I felt like I learned a lot of valuable information, particularly in remembering to Stop-Look-Listen, ways to be mindful, and to remember that the way my children respond to our divorce is directly related to how much conflict they are exposed to."
Mother- Maricopa County, AZ
"In-depth information and a complete guide to working agreements out with former partners."
Father- Cook County, IL
"The videos were definitely helpful, because they're pretty relatable."
Mother- Wayne County, MI
Counties in blue show where our course has been accepted.
Counties in red: Contact your local court before taking our course for acceptance.
Roger Mills County
Since 1991, The Center for Divorce Education has been dedicated to helping parents and children deal with the difficult process of divorce and separation. Over this period our parenting program has evolved based on continuing research in the field. Today tens of thousands of divorcing/separating parents make use of our highly effective interactive parenting class “Children in Between Online” for reducing the stress of divorce and separation.
Our interactive, skills-based approach has been recognized by experts among the top programs being offered today. Donald A. Gordon, Ph.D., the Executive Director of CDE, is also our program/curriculum developer. Dr. Gordon is a clinical psychologist with an expertise targeting the reduction and prevention of delinquency. During his forty plus years of working with families, Dr. Gordon has studied the effects that different strategies have on reducing conflict within a family, both with parents and children.
In the early 1980’s, Dr. Gordon and his colleagues at Ohio University noticed a common characteristic among the youth with whom they were working -- namely that many of them came from homes where their parents were divorced, divorcing, or never- married parents living apart. After doing some further investigation in the literature, Dr. Gordon and his colleagues confirmed that divorce is among the key risk factors for delinquency. From there, Dr. Gordon and his colleagues shifted their energy and research focus to try and identify specific strategies that could help reduce parental conflict. The goal became to change the behavior of parents who unknowingly place their children in the middle of their conflicts that create the most harmful of consequences, loyalty binds.
Based on his research in the early nineties, Dr. Gordon developed a parenting curriculum that could be standardized and offered by social service agencies, mental health agencies, and private counselors. This class “Children in Between” was purchased by hundreds of providers who, in turn, presented the curriculum to divorcing/separating parents in a classroom setting. While most parents today are taking our online parenting class, there are still more than a hundred agencies who present our material and video content in a live classroom setting.
Following the broad acceptance of our live class, Children in Between, (CIB) co- parenting program, in 2007, Dr. Gordon adapted the material into a highly interactive format that could be offered to parents everywhere via the Internet. Today, over two thousand parents monthly have access to this parenting class on their computers, smartphones, and tablets.
Since 1992, over four hundred fifty thousand parents in all fifty states have either taken our class online (100,000), or in person (approx. 350,000). The online version, Children in Between Online (CIBO), launched in 2008. Over three thousand parents each month are taking the class on their computers and smart phones in forty-five states. In a bid competition with dozens of other online classes, CIBO has been approved as the only accepted provider in some of the largest court systems in the country including: Clark County (Las Vegas) (initially), Cook County (Chicago, IL) Hamilton County (Cincinnati, OH) and Wayne County (Detroit). We are one of only two approved providers in Maricopa County (Phoenix, AZ) as well. Today, the course has been accepted in more than two hundred and fifty judicial districts.
The research evidence on Children in Between (CIB) resulted in the program's being listed on the National Registry of Evidence-Based Programs and Practices. The ratings of numerous controlled studies on CIB were above average in quality of the research and the findings. CIB is one of only two parenting classes listed on NREPP for co-parenting or divorce education.
CIB was also selected as a Model Program for SAMHSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration). This selection was based upon a review of all of the research for CIB, and the program's readiness for dissemination nationally. Only 52 programs were designated Model Programs, out of over 400 submissions.
Today, we continue to improve and revise the program based on feedback from parents, agencies, and courts. The class was completely re-filmed and revised as of late 2018 and won a Telly Award and W3 Award for content.
Although many parents do not want to complete a parenting class, 9 out of 10 parents who take our course say they would recommend it to other parents. Our class is online, it is easy to understand, and it can be taken on any internet-connected device. We are proud of the work that we have done so far and will continue to do our best to help parents and their children.
The Center for Divorce Education
© 2021 The Center for Divorce Education
CDE's Children in Between is a skills based program that helps children and parents deal with the children's reactions to divorce.
The program is based on research that identifies the most common and stressful loyalty conflicts experienced by children of divorce.