Resources

Modern Commitment - Discernment Counseling Resource: If you and your spouse would like to take another look at the decision to divorce, our website has a list of Discernment Counselors who can help. This website is dedicated to all couples struggling in their committed relationship. Your challenges may be small (squabbling over daily chores) or huge (whether to exit your marriage). We take your readership seriously. Much marriage advice is pretty simplistic. It sounds good but doesn’t really have legs to create the change you desire.

SHOULD I TRY TO WORK IT OUT? - This guidebook is designed to be a resource to individuals who may be thinking about getting a divorce or whose spouse is thinking about divorce. These individuals are at the “crossroads of divorce,” facing a challenging decision that has powerful consequences for the future of their own lives, the lives of family members, and their communities. The guidebook contains research-based information about important questions that individuals at the crossroads of divorce often have, such as: Can my marriage be repaired and can we be happy again? Is divorce a reliable path to happiness? What are the effects of divorce on children, adults, and the communities they live in? What are the legal options for ending a marriage? With objective information and self-guided, written exercises, the authors try to answer these questions and many more in this guidebook and help individuals at the crossroads of divorce think clearly about the best path forward for themselves and their children.

THE DIVORCE REMEDY - Michele Weiner-Davis goes beyond her marriage-saving bestseller, Divorce Busting, with this empowering and encouraging guide for revitalizing marriage and building stronger, more loving bonds. In a down-to-earth style that is free of psychobabble, Weiner-Davis outlines a realistic, solution-oriented seven-step program for managing marital problems, which, when left unchecked, can drain the life out of a relationship.

Alternatives to Divorce with Bill Doherty - Divorce is a way to solve a problem that people don’t think they can solve by staying married. For some couples divorce may indeed be the best option, but for other couples there may be better ways to solve their problem.

Our Family Wizard - All of your co-parenting communication on a single platform. With OFW, your schedule, expenses, and communication are contained within one app, so you can solve shared custody challenges faster and without confusion. That means less conflict and more energy to focus on your children. Powerful tools document your parenting time, reimbursement requests, payments, exchanges, and more.

Creating a Safety-Focused Parenting Plan (A Model Template) - This guide is viewed as a “model template” created and published by the Oregon Judicial Department. The Center for Divorce Education views the material in this document to be helpful information for persons who find themselves in need of such services. This document contains forms that are specific to the State of Oregon. PLEASE CHECK WITH YOUR STATE to learn what forms or additional information is needed when creating a Safety-Focused Parenting Plan in your State. This document is intended solely as a guide.

Personal Safety-Plan Check-list - This document is provided through the National DV Hotline Website. These safety suggestions have been compiled from safety plans distributed by state domestic violence coalitions from around the country. Following these suggestions is not a guarantee of safety, but could help to improve your personal safety situation.

National Domestic Violence Hotline (Website) - This resource provides helpful information and assistance should you find yourself in a situation of abuse or violence. This site includes guidance for personal safety as well as the safety of your children.